What We’re Doin’

I know I’m way behind in the update thing. I’ve been spending my days keeping our Brave Hero loved on and as pain free as possible.

And changing diapers.

Lots and lots and lots and lots of diapers.

And slathering on vast volumes of bum cream. Cause the rash has arrived.

I overheard a young mother complaining about having to change diapers. She expressed her distaste for the smell. The frequency. The sheer boredom of the task.

I tried to explain to this young mother that her child’s ability to fill a diaper via the typical outlets was nothing more than a true blessing. One for which thanks should be given.

She looked me like I had more than just one screw loose. But that was okay. Both Parker and I knew exactly what I was talking about.

I can honestly say that I give a little prayer of thanks each and every time I need to change a poopy diaper. I totally understand the value of the little things these days.

Parker’s tummy is looking great. The wound is healing so nicely with still no sign of infection. He hasn’t lost much weight at all.

And we are so very grateful.

We are still experiencing lots of this:

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And not nearly enough of this:

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But today was better than yesterday.

And we have faith that tomorrow will be better than today.

Comments

  1. Kei says:

    awwww… Sweet brave hero and his awesome momma totally rock. Sorry he’s got bottom rash but so happy to hear he’s doing so well.

  2. toyfoto says:

    Many prayers coming your way. That top photo makes my heart ache.

  3. Barbara
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    says:

    Thank God! And you, Tammy, of course – for the update! The good news overwhelms the not-so-good.

    You do make it all sound so appealing. I almost wish I could change a few diapers for you. Almost. teehee.
    Still praying.

  4. Nina says:

    oh no….that pic of Parker upset hurt my heart! Hang in there Tammy….you are such an awesome mom. So glad those poopy diapers are continuing.

  5. Amy says:

    Thanks for the update. I’ve been checking several times a day to see how the Brave Hero is recuperating. Happy to hear of the many diapers but, not so happy to see the little guy in pain. Hopefully soon he’ll be back to his old self and pain free. Thoughts, prayers, & hugs to all.
    Amy

  6. Kari says:

    This photo broke my heart. What an amazing Brave little hero! Sending healing prayers.

  7. Melissa says:

    Oh, that first picture is breaking my heart!
    Keep giving that tough one a lot of love from us.
    Hang in there, Parky!
    And keep on fillin’ those diapers!

  8. kaylene says:

    I’ve been thinking of you and poor parker!!! I’m glad he has been doing so well with lack of infection, etc. And I hope his rash goes away soon.

  9. I am so relieved to see you post today! I was getting worried. Oh diaper rashes are so heartbreaking. Parly’s face is heartbreaking too :( I love you little sweetie. You beautiful boy! Parker, you dont know how many people (especially mommy and daddy) are so happy to hear you are having lots of poopy diapers!! Yay Parky!!!!!

    I love you little guy! You will always be my hero and so will your mommy :)
    Love and hugs,
    Amy

  10. Cindy says:

    Oooh! Poor little guy! I pray he can feel better real quick!

  11. annie says:

    Praying tomorrow is better!

    (Have you heard of/tried a cream called aloe vesta? It is over the counter, but I have to order it at my CVS. It is the best stuff I have ever used. EVER. A nurse mentioned it when Izzy had a terrible rash because of iv meds and it cleared her up so quickly. I use it daily just as a preventative barrier and in the five years since her accident she hasn’t even been red once!)

  12. Tiffany says:

    Tammy,
    That first picture of Parker brought me to tears…I so wish I could take his pain way :(

    Have you tried using corn starch? Thats the only thing that works when Anthony gets those kind of rashes. We just put some in a shaker type thing, and use that all over his booty.

    Tiffintexas

  13. Steph says:

    Awww….poor Parker and poor Mommy. Pain is so hard to watch and the pain that comes from that kind of butt burn is horrible…BTDT. Joey has a high pain tolerance but he was unable to told back his moans and groans and screams during those times. His came from intolerace to daily laxative. So right now I feel so blessed to be able to give daily enemas to keep him cleaned out. You are so right…diapers and poop mean the world to us. No poop=TROUBLE. Also beware that the runny poos can switch to constipation in a matter of a day or two. I’m not sure of what Parker’s diet consists of though…that could make a difference. Praying the acidity poos stop soon!

  14. Laurie says:

    I am so glad to hear that everything is going well. I’ve been thinking of you guys…esp. because we are in the recovery stages of post-op stuff as well.
    ((Hugs))

  15. Suzie says:

    Bless his heart – that first picture is so sad :-(
    When my boys got diaper rash the doctor had me rinse their butt with warm water,blow dry it and them put milk of magnesia on it because it became chalky and absorbed wetness. I don’t know that it would work right now but maybe down the road it might help.

  16. Kay says:

    Poor little man! I love you Parker!!!!

  17. Wishing I, too, could take his pain. Keep loving him well.

  18. MomOf3(4ToB) says:

    The picture of Parker crying started my tears too. I am praying for that pain to go away. God Bless you, little man!

  19. You’ve added a new dimension to my thoughts during diaper changes! Not that I’ve really minded them, but I don’t think I’ve ever been thankful…

    Hope the days just keep getting better and better.

  20. Ecki says:

    I’m finally getting caught up on reading blogs — hope Parker is doing better.

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